A Gender Neutral Babyshower – Vintage Afternoon Tea Themed

A Gender Neutral Babyshower – Vintage Afternoon Tea Themed

Originally published on 4 February 2015.

My sister kindly organised a baby shower for me, it was supposed to be a surprise but it didn’t stay that much of a surprise, saying that all I knew was the time, date and location. The guests and goings on were a mystery.

vintage neutral afternoon tea themed baby shower buffet

vintage themed baby shower gender neutralbirdcage sandwich stand afternoon teavintage cake standspink card cake standsvintage floral paper plates for pretty gender neutral baby shower

My sister went down the afternoon tea route for the theme, knowing that I love afternoon tea and all things floral this was perfect for me. She even borrowed a ‘vintage’ teacup and saucer set from her partners grandfather which I failed to photograph. Everything looked beautiful, my favourite parts were the bunting and the birdcage style cake stand.

popular baby shower games labour or porn

We played several games but the funniest had to be ‘labour or porn‘, it is surprisingly difficult to guess which are pleasure and which are pain! When seeing the original photos we all decided that the porn photos were actually a lot more graphic and disturbing than the labour photos!

popular baby shower games competition make a nappy out of toilet roll

We split into teams of two and made a nappy using toilet roll. This is my team’s effort and we were the winners thanks to my creative use of the decorative safety pin.
Other games were : all guests had to bring along a baby photo and we had to identify who was who, they melted chocolate into nappies and I had to identify which chocolate it was (4 out of 5, chocaholic!), they asked Spencer questions about looking after a baby and I had to guess his answers, matching children’s names to their celebrity parent and identifying body parts on scan pictures. There were also guess cards which everyone paid £1 to fill in, the person who correctly guesses (or is nearest to) due date, sex, weight, etc will win the pot.

mom to be sash and badge 36 weeks pregnant at baby shower

36 weeks + 1 day.

messages on nappies at baby shower

I was given a gift bag full of nappies, all of which had an individual message on from the guests and a few that couldn’t make the shower. This was such a lovely idea and the messages were so nice, some guests got super creative and gave us examples of what to expect to find inside nappies…

baby shower presents

Last but by no means least I was given loads of gifts, we have one spoilt little baby already. I couldn’t believe how much I was given, all of my friends were so generous which both Spencer and I are so grateful for.

baby shower gift ideas


Purchase the popular game Labour or Porn here.

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Photo sharing platform, Million Eyez are giving bloggers the chance to win an Olympus Pen Camera! As much as I don’t want you to enter because I want the prize to be mine, all mine, I really couldn’t not share this with you!

Who are these lovely people at Million Eyez who are giving away a camera (not just any camera, an Olympus Pen!) I hear you ask? They are a free photo sharing platform who aim to bring bloggers and photographers together to share photos based on themes. Anyone can create and upload photos to a Photobox, the blogger then gets to embed the photos into their blog and the photographer gets the credit. Everyone is a winner.

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  1. 4th February 2015 / 11:23 pm

    That rugby kit is a cracking present! Definitely first thing on my list when I have a baby 😉 looks like your sister organised a lovely do for you! Must be exciting now, not long to go!!

    Hannah xx

  2. 4th February 2015 / 11:23 pm

    That rugby kit is a cracking present! Definitely first thing on my list when I have a baby 😉 looks like your sister organised a lovely do for you! Must be exciting now, not long to go!!

    Hannah xx

  3. 20th January 2016 / 12:28 am

    are you willing to share tha labour or porn game? I've been searching for it, but so far have come up empty handed….

      13th March 2017 / 9:35 pm

      the labor or porn game is hilarious. Are you wiling to share?

      • Leanne
        13th March 2017 / 10:30 pm

        Hi, I’ve shared the link to buy it in the blog post 🙂

  4. Kirby
    26th May 2017 / 7:55 am

    My baby shower seems like it was ages ago! Funny how fast time goes by eh? Thanks for the post and for being part of the campaign!

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